Summary:
The problem is people try to apply a generalised approach to their marriage, compare their marriage with others, and end up feeling miserable. Now, as I said earlier, every marriage is a unique union of two unique individuals. For example, just because it is believed one should never go to bed angry doesn't mean you want to make up at any cost. This doesn't mean the other person should suffer silently always. When you try to quick fix a problem, it doesn't get resolved at the root level and lingers..